Purpose To provide a structured self-diagnostic for romantic market positioning.Outputs: Quadrant (Value × Constraints) Fit score Best lever (Status / Constraint / Fit) Bias flags Confidence level Preamble Before answering, define your dating pool: Who are the people you realistically meet and date (geography, culture, community, orientation)? Keep this in mind as you answer. Section … Continue reading Dating Market Diagnostic Tool
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Finding a Primary Care Physician in the U.S.
This is a common question. Here are things to consider when selecting a new one. As a starting point, you can use Healthgrades.com to do an initial search for internists in your area. Under the About Me section for each doctor, you can find the information below. Good medical school? Use a ranking like U.S. … Continue reading Finding a Primary Care Physician in the U.S.
Finding Your Best Starting Point: A Simple Guide to Personal Growth
The Big Idea Instead of asking "What's wrong with me?" ask "Where should I start today?" This guide helps you pick the best place to focus your energy so you can grow and feel better. Step 1: Look at Four Areas of Your Life Think about these four parts of yourself: Your Body How tense … Continue reading Finding Your Best Starting Point: A Simple Guide to Personal Growth
A Level of Fuck You, A Quote from The Gambler (2014)
"Jim Bennett: I've been up two and a half million dollars. Frank: What you got on you? Jim Bennett: Nothing. Frank: What you put away? Jim Bennett: Nothing. Frank: You get up two and a half million dollars, any asshole in the world knows what to do: you get a house with a 25 year … Continue reading A Level of Fuck You, A Quote from The Gambler (2014)
A Simple Guide to Relationship Zones
What This Is About Ever wonder why some relationships feel good and others feel terrible? Or why the same person can be great in one place but awful in another? This guide helps you figure out what's going on. The Three Types of Relationships Think of relationships like a traffic light with three colors: Red … Continue reading A Simple Guide to Relationship Zones
Thinking Outside the Box
PurposeSometimes an argument is built on hidden rules or values. “Thinking outside the box” means stepping outside the way the argument is set up so you can see it from a new angle. This can help you find blind spots, unfair rules, or hidden trade-offs. Quick Example Them: “Everyone should eat lunch at the same … Continue reading Thinking Outside the Box
💞 Relationship Checklist
What this is:This is a simple tool to help you figure out whether a relationship feels healthy, respectful, and good for you. It could be about a friend, family member, coworker, or even someone you just met. Why it matters:Sometimes we get used to relationships that leave us feeling small, tired, or confused. This checklist … Continue reading 💞 Relationship Checklist
Saved Instructions for ChatGPT
Currently working on refining ChatGPT response style. Figured it would be good to archive and share, in case it is useful for anyone else. Also, I asked both Gemini and Claude to adapt for their use. Interestingly, Claude is the model that asked to make the Contrary Corner element optional to cut down on performative … Continue reading Saved Instructions for ChatGPT
3/3/3, A Method For Structuring Your Day
"Every normal working day, my intention is: • to spend three hours on my most important current project, having defined some kind of specific goal for the progress I aim to make on it that day; • to complete three shorter tasks, usually urgent to-dos or "sticky" tasks I've been avoiding, usually just a few minutes each (I … Continue reading 3/3/3, A Method For Structuring Your Day
Granola.ai
"We designed Granola to be the best tool for writing meeting notes. Once you start using it, Granola quickly becomes a powerful repository of meetings that you can search through or chat with." - Granola 2.0
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