There's a moment, watching a documentary about a couple whose communication register is foreign to your own, when you reach for the obvious explanation. They talk a lot about feelings. They narrate their interior lives — what was the big moment of your day? — in a way nothing like the terse, decisive exchanges that … Continue reading What Sufficient Explanations Hide
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How to Recognize Someone Who Argues With Themselves
A short essay on a rare epistemic habit, and how to spot it from the outside There is a kind of person who pokes holes in things. They hear a confident claim and reach for the exception. They take the unpopular side at dinner. They cannot let a tidy conclusion sit there being tidy. The … Continue reading How to Recognize Someone Who Argues With Themselves
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