There's a moment, watching a documentary about a couple whose communication register is foreign to your own, when you reach for the obvious explanation. They talk a lot about feelings. They narrate their interior lives — what was the big moment of your day? — in a way nothing like the terse, decisive exchanges that … Continue reading What Sufficient Explanations Hide
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What Stays and What Moves
A short essay on a single idea about how to tell the real from the relative There is a move so simple it sounds almost like nothing: hold everything fixed but one thing, change that one thing, and watch what happens. What stays the same across the change is stable under that test — and … Continue reading What Stays and What Moves
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