What this is: A three-part tool to help you understand what's actually happening in your relationships—not what you hope is happening, not what you're told is happening, but what the repeated patterns reveal. Who this is for: Anyone who feels exhausted, confused, or stuck in a relationship (romantic, family, friendship, work) and wants clarity about … Continue reading Relationship Reality Check: A Diagnostic Guide
Tag: emotional labor
When Forgiveness Doesn’t Look Finished
A photo frame sits on the guest bed, unplugged and facing the wrong way. It takes thirty seconds to move it to a drawer. No conversation needed. The person who does this has forgiven the gift-giver—not by feeling warmth toward them, but by no longer expecting them to be different. The work continues because the … Continue reading When Forgiveness Doesn’t Look Finished
